Tuesday Jul 23, 2019
Ep. 2: Double Standards or Different Standards
The Sexual Double Standard is one of the most controversial topics in society currently. Many Americans believe that this is an actual phenomenon; but is their belief based on reality or it is just a political perspective of egalitarian activists who fail to see the biological gender differences between men & women? Social media public figure “Suave Q” analyzes the double standard for himself & shares his thoughts on this controversial topic.
6 years ago
....It doesn't look good to most people. So because of this, it's more like to us women it's not fair. You hear the double standard or different standard in movies, music, social media, our family, most guys, a lot of women, Etc. When you hear something over and over again, you begin to become brainwashed because you start to believe it because it feels real due to personal experiences of being shamed for it and and hearing the majority of guys getting kudos for it. But you broke it down so well and I appreciate you for that because I never really thought of it as the correct term of saying it's a different standard because yes we are wired differently. Sometimes us women forget that because we just want the same treatment when it comes to the same things that a man may enjoy doing. And yes some women don't care about the different standard and we'll still be out there having sex and open with it but the majority of women will keep that quiet because we all know that Society puts us down for being open sexual. I know you don't like that word Society but I'm just simply saying how most people think as a generalization
6 years ago
I have to say I'm really surprised on how knowledgeable you are about this. How well you broke it down because I never thought about it broken down in that way. I'm so used to hearing double standard when it comes to men and women and looking at it more like it's not fair that men can get away with having sex with multiple women and get praised for it by both sexes actually and women get critisized for it harshly, but, I do agree that men are the ones that are praising men more than woman do. Or let's just say that women don't put down men when they find out or know that men are sleeping around, but love to put down women very harshly. So you are right about that. Yes it has been like this before Society has called it a double standard as a form of control towards women making them feel bad for doing the same exact thing that men are praised for and it works. Why? You have no idea how it feels as a woman to be shamed or made to feel low for being open sexually or promiscuous and when I say Society, I'm simply saying that generally speaking most people buy into societies standards of how men and women should be and if they aren't this way then they are made to feel bad for it or AKA called names for it. It can sometimes feel like a big bully. And you're right, it's up to us to let Society control us or be in control of our own lives and not buy into that Society stuff. I agree with you on that but it's easier said than done. You have no idea how many times I've heard guys say that they look differently upon women who sleep around and in fact if they were to have sex with a woman on the first night, that they lose respect for her because they see her as being easy. Why? Based off of what you said when it comes to a different standards on how we view sex. Because women can produce life and get pregnant from sex and is taking something going inside them,